Wednesday, January 2, 2019


I told myself I would never do this

January 1, 2019





As of today, January 1, 2019, I am 48 years old, 5'10 and weigh 210 pounds. Ten of that gained since October 31st.

I've spent my adult life trying to live a healthy life. I became a personal trainer in my 20's. I know what needs to be done to stay healthy. I know all about nutrition, cardio, all the stuff I need.

A while ago, I hurt my back in Crossfit. I had a bulging disc in my L4-L5. I had a surgery to repair the bulge.  It held for 4 years. Like an idiot, I decided that I felt so good, I was going to join Crossfit again. I did it again. I damaged the same disc. I had another surgery. It lasted a year. Upon seeing the neurologist again, I was told a third surgery would require a spinal fusion. I passed mainly because my insurance wouldn't pay for it.

Oh, I forgot to mention that somewhere in all this mess, I had a cervical fusion. The surgeon told me I had the spine of an 80-year-old man. Great.

So, needless to say, those injuries set me back in my fitness goals. I'm already suffering from depression, bi-polar and anxiety so not being able to workout like I used to exacerbated those ailments.

I let myself go.

I know my body fat percentage must be around 20%. My goal is 12%. It's lofty but I'm taking baby-steps. I'd like to be 12% in a year. I'm not worried about weight since I know muscle weighs more than fat. That being said, 190 pounds would be nice.

My ultimate goal is to be in photoshoot shape by 50.

Jan 2, 2019
My left eye...blood vessels broke today. Coincidently, I started lifting weights today. :(



Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Another New Change



I am working with Century 21 and I've never been happier. I'm technically out on my own. I have an office and I work my own schedule. The best part, I get paid more. It's great to do what you love AND get paid to do it. 

I still like getting up in the mornings as I have for the past year but now it's a new feeling when you are getting paid what I'm worth. 

I'm still on the meds that I've been on for years. I've had some bad days but most have been pretty good. I've learned a valuable lesson: Don't be lazy with the meds. I got lazy and ran out of Vyvanse for about 5 days and DAMN I became a lethargic slug. I couldn't figure out why I was so tired and realized I was having withdraws. 

What sucks is that I realized in that time span how much I rely on that med. It's like a part of me now, like an appendage  that I can't live without and then when it gets cut off, I lose my mind.

I started writing a book. I'm heavy into Sci-Fi and working on a story that hopefully hasn't been written in this genre and style, in legitimate publishing anyway.

Who knows. If it's really good than maybe I'll get a movie deal a la Harry Potter.  Eh, no matter. I found out I like doing it. Now I wished I would have paid attention in English class back in High School.

Getting back into yoga or as I like to call it, Broga. It's been a long time and I'm deteriorating faster than I'd like to at 46 years old. If only I had listened to my body when I was in my 20s and 30s. I'm now convinced that squats, deadlifts, anything with heavy weight that puts stress on your joints and spine are very very bad for you. It's no wonder that professional athletes have pain for the rest of their lives after retirement. The put their bodies through that stress on purpose! 

On to bigger and better things. I'll keep you posted.




Thursday, January 7, 2016

Change in career, change in attitude

Change in career, change in attitude 



After eight years in pharmaceutical sales I decided to end it all and move to a different career. Real Estate. My pharma job was creating stress, anxiety and depression in addition to the stress, anxiety and depression already existing in my life. It made my symptoms 3-fold.



For those of you who don't know, pharmaceutical sales has good pay, great health benefits and great friends. However, the industry has changed so much.  In the eight years I was selling the government regulations got worse and worse until our jobs were almost impossible to do. That being said, pharmaceutical sales means you work for the devil.  Everything that's wrong with our health care system stems from the drug companies. The cost of drugs is determined by how much profit the drug company wants to make.  In 2015 my company raised the price of a product I was selling three times. Why? No reason.  They could so they did.  It was all about making as much profit as possible before that product goes generic. That's why your medications are so high and why they keep going up.



The last straw was a patient coming up to me in a doctor's office lobby, crying her eyes out. The doctor saw me and had said to her, "Well you want to know why.  Ask him." The drug her husband needed to live had gone up so much that he could no longer afford them.  I asked if she applied for assistance from my company. She said she did but did not qualify. They are retired and on a fixed income and they didn't qualify? I looked into it and apparently one has to dirt poor to qualify, way below the poverty line. This drug is a life or death product.  She was so upset, she was sobbing and all she kept asking was, "Why?  Why?" I told her I couldn't do anything for her but I did leave the doctor a ton of samples. I told her to just keep asking for samples and that should get you through until you can figure something out.  The doctor said he would give her all the samples she needs. 

No one should have to go through that. No one should have to decide whether they should starve to pay for their meds or die. Believe it or not some people choose to struggle though and let themselves die. They don't want to be a burden to their families and cause more financial problems so they decide to die. It should never be this way. 

I was so unhappy, depressed and sad about my job.  I dreaded waking up and going to work each morning. I did all i could to procrastinate and put off having to do work. Picture going into offices all day long and being told no one has time for you, that you are a bother, that you are to stop coming in and that the doctor hates drug reps. It happens on a daily basis and it sucks your soul dry. 





I have always wanted to try real estate. I love looking at homes, I love interior design and at one time I wanted to be an architect.  Luckily I found a realtor, or she found me, recognized my potential, said I had the personality for real estate so I took the plunge. I'm so glad I did.  I've been at this for two months and I absolutely love it!  I haven't made any money yet but I know it will happen.  











Today I spoke with a new buyer who I have spent the last two days with.  She told me, "Rex, I'm not a holy person but I thanks God for you.  We have worked with realtors who are jerks, show no interest and don't take the time to care.  You have stuck with us, showed us houses that you knew we would want to see.  You found the perfect house for us and we love you for it.  We think you are wonderful and so caring. Thank you." That made me feel so good. I never heard that while doing pharma sales.

The thing I noticed right off was that my depression and anxiety was cut in half, if not more. I look forward to going to work each day. My energy levels are back to normal.  I get up every morning at six o'clock and hit the gym and I'm at work by eight thirty. I work all day, sometimes not leaving until six pm and I love it. My work is so rewarding and I get to help people find homes and that makes them happy.  Making them happy makes me happy.  A great combination. 

So, if you have as many mental health issues as I have and you think there is no way out. Maybe it's something in your life that is making it worse. If you know you're not happy than I suggest dealing with it.  The result feel so much better than dealing with it every day. 

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Spinless



Well it's official. I am a spineless so and so.  I'm convinced my spine is nothing but a slippery, rubbery noodle. The discs themselves are actually just Oreo cookies that have been smashed just like the bag-boy at the grocery who has placed all my canned goods on top of my cookies. 

Four years ago I had a laminectomy on my L-4 / L-5 discs in my lower back after a heavy squat workout at Crossfit.  The cause was a bulge touching a nerve root.  I had terrible, shooting, stabbing pain through my left leg and foot drop.  Foot drop is when you can't lift your toes off the ground and can be permanent if not taken care of immediately.

The illustration below shows what a bulging disc looks like.




This year, January 17,  2015, that same nasty little disc decided to bulge again and make life miserable for me.  I don't exactly know how I did it.  All I know is I had been doing Crossfit for the past year but I was very careful.  Crossfit can be bad for people with injuries like mine.  I shouldn't have been doing Crossfit but I felt so great and had been running, cycling, kayaking and I thought I was good to go. I felt it was time to up my game and get back into more challenging workouts.  I thought I learned my lesson from getting hurt the first time at Crossfit and I decided to proceed with just lifting very, very light weights. Apparently with a spine injury like mine, I shouldn't have been doing any kind of lifting like squats, clean and jerks, dead lifts even with light weights.  It doesn't take much for the discs to bulge again.  As I found out the hard way.


Don't get me wrong.  Crossfit is an amazing workout.  It's tough, it's challenging, it feels like you've been beat up.  After you are done you are sore and achy and you feel like shit but yet you can't wait for tomorrow's WOD (Workout Of the Day). Remember to LISTEN TO YOUR BODY! If your body is telling to skip a day and rest than do it.  Your body knows more than you do. 

I think Crossfit and workouts like it is meant for younger athletes in their 20's, early 30's, athletes who are actually training for a competitive sport and people with jobs that demand strength and endurance. Younger people have more strength and stamina and it takes a lot of stamina to get through a one hour WOD.  

Athletes who are training for events such as power lifting, football, baseball, wrestling, triathlons, any sport where you have to be in incredible shape can benefit greatly from Crossfit.  It has the kind of movements and muscle building techniques that one needs to perform competitively.  

Also I think Crossfit is for Type A personalities.  Type A people tend to be focused, driven, high energy, control freaks, hate to lose and are highly competitive and 99.999% of hardcore athletes are Type A.  You have to be Type A in order to succeed in competitive sports. 

I. Am. Not. Type A.

If you're like me and are an average joe and really don't have a reason to workout that hard, I would think twice.  Try it and see if you like it. I just want to get a good workout in and let's face it, I just want to look good naked. If you look good naked you look amazing in clothes. I'm vain and maybe a little shallow but I like my workouts to be low-key and I want to get in and out.  I've never been one to grunt and growl when I lift. I don't listen to loud, hardcore music where I'm getting screamed at through a microphone because it's supposed to make me "mad" as that is supposed to make you lift harder.  I'm 44 years old, I don't need to be mad at a jumprope and I like regular old pop music. I know, lame but I like what I like. Kelly Clarkson is just fine with me.

On the flip side it's hard to not want to do Crossfit when you constantly see guys coming out of the boxes (crossfit gyms) that look like this.

I mean come on! Who wouldn't like to look like these guys.  Yes I know that much of that is genetics but bodies like that do not come from 20 minutes of cardio on an elliptical and 3 sets of weight training.  It's hard work and 80% clean eating.  And one more thing to make you feel inadequate and average is that tons of these beautiful guys and girls that do Crossfit are firefighters, cops, soldiers, EMT's.  The kind of people who benefit greatly from this workout for their jobs.  

 I. Have. No. Willpower. 

I see sugar and I have to have it.  I guarantee these guys have seen nothing but chicken breasts and steamed broccoli for that last year. 

So it's the end of April and I haven't worked since the beginning of February.  Luckily I have great benefits and am double covered.  I get 13 weeks of full pay.  I had my surgery last week on the 15th and am still recovering.  It's been one week and I am up and walking around, running errands and going about my day but I also know that I can't over do it.  I'm on oxycodone and that masks much of my pain.  I've already slipped back in to my old ways and thought I could spend the day shopping and running errands.  That was a big mistake. I forgot I was hurt because of the pain killers.  It set me back a few days.  Recovery should take about 4 weeks. One can return to work in 2 weeks post-op but with limited mobility, no lifting over 20 lbs, no driving long distances, no getting in and out of the car all day.  Guess what?  All of those things I just mentioned I do for a living.  I'm hoping in two more weeks I'll get to go back to work. 

The moral of the story is if you want to try Crossfit, by all means, go for it!  However, if you have any kind of injury no matter if it's chronic or you were injured some other way, think twice about putting yourself in a position where you can make it worse.  It's tough to realize that you can't do the things you used to do when you were younger.  The older we get the harder it is to lose weight and gain muscle. Life is going to smack you in the head and say, "Hey! Do you WANT to be in a wheelchair for the rest of your life?"

Get healthy, stay healthy and listen to your body.
  

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Shazbot!

Robin Williams 
July 21, 1951 -August 11, 2014

In regards to the suicide of Robin Williams, there has been much in the news today about how depression played a role in it. A point I keep hearing from people, not in the know, is that suicide is selfish. It's actually a selfLESS act. 

A person with depression feels that taking their life would actually be a burden lifted from your shoulders, not theirs. They are always thinking about the people around them and how to ease their fears and make their lives more comfortable, not their own. Taking themselves out of the equation is sometimes the only choice.

Depression acts as a dampner for emotions and it's makes it hard to think clearly. Every thing seems wore than it is. suicide sometimes is the only way to to end all that confusion and pain. Since you can't ask someone who commits suicide why they did it, ask someone who struggles with it. I think you will find that it's not as selfish as you think.

In his book “Myths About Suicide,” Psychologist Thomas Joiner deconstructs the myth that suicide is cowardly or selfish.
“It certainly seems selfish from the outside,” Joiner told NPR in 2010. “I understand the sentiment. But the trouble is, in trying to reason about the suicidal mind from a non-suicidal place – that’s basically where most of these myths come from.”
“What the suicidal person is thinking at the time is actually quite different from selfishness. Their idea is along the lines of, my death will be worth more than my life to others,” he explained. “Now, if you ponder that sentiment, that’s not selfish at all. In fact, if anything it’s the opposite. It’s very selfless.”

Please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-8255 if you or someone you know is suffering. Operators are available 24/7.

Sunday, June 8, 2014

No news is no news to me

                    

I am trying a little experiment to see if watching the news affects me in a negative way.  I basically haven't been watching the news or reading it.  The only way I get my news is from word of mouth.  

I have to say that no engaging in the news has really helped me with my anxiety.  Listening day after day, hour after hour of depressing, fear based news takes a toll on nerves, attitude and mood.  Even if I catch a glimpse of it on TV I start to get a little anxious. 

Not watching the news makes me less "scared."  The fear based news is getting out of control.  

I'm not trying to sound biased but FOX News is the worst.  I dont think they have ever broken a major news story.  It's all opinoin based commentary designed to instill fear into conservatives that liberals are taking their rights away.  

CNN is just about reporting on blood and guts. "If it bleeds, it leads."  They spent weeks on back to back coverage of the missing Malasian flight with litterally no new leads the entire time.  It's all speculation.  

MSNBC just seems to be ALL liberal commentary which also is an inbalance. 

I do enjoy NBC Nightly News.  I enjoy Brian Williams and his snarky aside comments. I really don't see a liberal bias with Nightly News.  I do see a little more fluff however. They are also pretty good about retracting errors in their broadcasts. 

Talk radio is no better.  I used to listen to KIRO out of Seattle.  It had a nice blend of liberal and conservative commentary but sometimes it got to be too much.  Dori Monson is a "libertarian" host and I used to love him.  I found the more money he makes, the more conservative he becomes.  His shows have become 3 hours of rage against government.  It would be ok but his ranting and raving seem like they are going to lead him to a heart attack.  Seriously, his blood pressure must be way out of wack.  Listening to his loud yelling and rage based fear always got my blood boiling and my heart rate up.  It gives off a very negative vibe.

I think that constantly being around negative language and people is bad for your health.  Sometimes I think I can feel the negative waves eminating from the radio or TV.  I don't surround myself with negative friends so why would I do it with my news. 

Try it for a week.  I think you will feel "lighter" and less negative.




Wednesday, June 4, 2014

midwest hospitality

This week I'm visiting the family back in good ole' Illinois and Iowa. In the past I didn't really make it a priority to visit my family but lately things have changed. 

I now have a 3 year old nephew is the funnest human being on the planet.  He laughs at my jokes, at my funny faces and he likes to sing with me. We also tend to like pretending we are sharks when ever we eat Goldfish crackers.  

When we walk we tend to jump as well.  Besides, who wants to always walk all the time when you can hop? BORING!

We also like to swing by me pulling him up by one arm and swinging him forward while we walk...or hop.  Who doesn't like to swing??

Did I mention he is photogenic?  We could take selfies all day long.  The best selfies are "mean selfies." Those are the kind when you make a mean face or stick out your tongue.  Regular smiles are just not fun.

I took a month off from work to get my head on straight.  I decided to take a trip back to my origins because I didn't want to miss my nephew growing up.  I already missed my other nephew and two neices growing up and I didn't want that to happen again. Turns out this trip has done me a lot of good.  It's relaxing.  I'm not on a schedule.  I do what I want whenever I want.   It feels like a mini-vacation except that I'm spending more money on shopping than I have in a long time.  WTF I'm treating myself.  It's been a long month. 

My house is being painted while I'm gone and I don't have to do it.  That was stressing me btw. 

All in all it's a pretty good last week of staycationing. I think I'll do it more often.

Sunday, June 1, 2014

I've been Abilified

Another med has been added to my already crazy line-up for my depression issues.  I'm now at 5 meds.
1 Vyvanse (long acting adderal)
2 Sertraline (Zoloft)
3 Lamotrigene (mood stabilzer)
4 regular Adderal (ADHD)
5 Abilify (antidepressant booster and works on bipolar) 

Abilify is the new one.  It boosts the effects of the antidepressant. It helps me not feel tired and keeps my grounded. The generic name is Aripiprazole and is primarily used for the treatment of schizophrenia or bipolar disorder.[9]
That's right.  It's also for schizophrenia.  Well that just explains everything.  

So far it's been a good experience.  I get things done. I get my workouts in.  I have extra energy.  

Here is the bad part.  Ever heard of The Flash?  The superhero who can run really fast? 
Well I think I'm THE FLASH. Everything I do now is in fast-forward. I talk faster.  I walk faster.  I eat faster and I think faster.  I think too fast.  I think so fast that before I can finish a thought, I've moved on to another.  It like I'm Profressor X and I can hear everything around me all at once. 
                                                

I'm taking some time off work and thank god I need it.  I want to make sure I'm heading in the right direction with all these meds.  I'm a drug rep so I know all the issues that can happen with these drugs.  

Maybe I will think so fast that I will turn back time and I can tell my younger self to "snap out of it fool!"




Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Anxious about being anxious

Well this is a new one.  Anxiety.  Not just anxiety like as in test anxiety. Anxiety as in public anxiety.
I've never experience this before. Actual panic attacks at the thought of talking to people or being around people I don't know.  I've always been a very outgoing, personable, can talk to anyone kind of person.

It's becoming quite the daily obstacle when it comes to my job as well.  I have to make calls and talk to doctors all day and the thought of doing that makes my heart race and my chest pound. It's very disconcerting. How am I supposed to make a living if I can't do my job?

The funny thing is that I don't have anxiety while acting.  I don't get anxious at auditions.  I don't get anxious on stage or in front of the camera.  I guess that says something about doing what you love and it doesn't feel like work.


Friday, January 31, 2014

Yesterday while I was getting my hair cut, the girl cutting it was telling me how pissed she was because she bought a scale at Good Will.  She stepped on it in the store and it said she had lost 10 lbs.  When she got it home she found it was 10 lbs off...too light that is.

She knew that she shouldn't weigh herself.  We had had this discussion many times.  I told her if you exercise that you gain muscle, muscle weighs more than fat, your scale does no reflect that.  It pushes you into a tizzy because you think you have gained fat.

She told me she doesn't believe in diets and has made a lifestyle change and cut out sugar and only eat veggies and lean meat.  Still she was curious and wanted to know her weight.

I told her to only go by the way her clothes fit and how her mental and physical state are; if they are improving that is.  The only other way to know if you are truly losing fat is to get your body fat % checked and that's not easy.  It's not something you can do yourself.  You have to get it checked hydrostatically, meaning you get dunked in a water tank.


If you go to their website you can find a date when the truck will be your area if it is available in your part of the country.  I'm sure there are other companies but this is the one that I use.   The tank is only about 3 ft deep, if that, and you literally just blow out all your air, submerge yourself and the technician calculates your body fat composition.  Don't worry, you won't drown.  It takes a few seconds. 
 It has to do with weight, water displacement and a bunch of other things. It is scientifically the most accurate way to know your body fat %.



If you've ever wanted to get started on a plan to make real progress, or want to get back on track, getting your body fat tested in our hydrostatic tank is a great way to precisely benchmark your fitness. Getting dunked takes just 10 minutes, and afterward, you'll get a detailed report to keep, showing:
  • Your fat and fat-free body mass, as percentages and in actual weight
  • How much fat, if any, you need to lose to achieve your desired body composition
  • How many calories per day you burn without exercising—unique to you
  • How many calories you burn from different exercises—again, specifically for your body
  • Where you are on a scale of ideal body fat for your age and gender
  • Your history, if you've been tested before


    So when you are getting frustrated with your scale, first throw it against a moving vehicle, preferable off an overpass and then go get your body fat checked.  Even if you have to go to a gym and they caliper you its at least a gauge and it will stay consistent. 

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Losing a friend but gaining childhood memories

Today a life-long friend lost her life in an ATV accident.  A normal everyday routine activity and then "poof" she's gone.  The details are not important.  All that matters is she's gone to a better place.

She and her husband met my family at the First Baptist Church in Aledo, Illinois when I must have been in kindergarten almost 40 years ago.  Her and her husband became very close friends with my parents.  Our families along with other families from church spent alot of evenings together in back yards surrounded by corn fields, lightning bugs, summer breezes and lots of laughter.

One memory that I always think about is a camping trip to Greenlake, Wisconsin for a church retreat. I was very young, about 8 years old.  I remember it like it was yesterday.  We had campers next to each other and us kids would go off with our bikes and explore the grounds and go swimming. One day it rained so hard we couldn't go anywhere and we were stuck in our pop-up camper all day.
In the winter I remember sledding parties and potlucks at church and christmas eve candle light services.  I don't even know if I saw them there but that's the kind of memories that float to the surface.

Her husband stored my car for me in their machine shed while I was at basic training.  A couple years back they threw my mom a 60th birthday party at their lake behind their farm.  My mom and dad were one of the first people called when the accident happened yesterday.  Mom and dad immediatley drove to our friend's house, grabbed some clothes and a wallet for her husband and drove to be by their side.

She and her husband were very devoted christians.  The were a positive influence and I never heard either one say a bad word about anyone.  She was hilarious as well.  She was very independent, took no shit from anyone and always took care of her husband and family.  Everyone in town knew them and she was well loved.

I only get back to Aledo once or twice a year.  I swear almost every time I return for a visit I run into her and her husband some where in town.  I alway get a hug and then asked how everything in my life is going.  I'm not looking forward to the next time when I see just her husband. I won't know what to say.

It's funny how we live life not remembering things from out past until we lose someone who was in so many of those memories.  Since I heard the news of her passing all of a sudden these obscure childhood memories start flickering in my mind and I start to re-live all those forgotten moments that meant so much.  It also reminds me that you don't know when you time is coming, even doing the most routine everyday chore can be your last.

Monday, December 30, 2013

Cleanse Yourself of Cleansing

Cleanse Yourself of Cleansing

I've been reading a lot lately about different fad diets because it's that time of the year when people go overboard and try to lose as much holiday weight as possible in the quickest amount of time. People ask me all the time which is the best diet to do. My answer is always "none of them."  If it's something that you can't stick to for every day for the rest of your life, it's not a good idea.  Really fit, healthy people eat "clean." That means fruits, vegetable, lean meat and NO SUGAR. That is something you can do everyday for the rest of your life.  You can not do a cleanse everyday and Atkins is not smart either.  Cut out sugar and you will lose 10 pounds quickly just from the shock your body is going through not storing sugar.


CLEANSES
Cleanses are one of the biggest rip-offs in the billion dollar weight-loss industry.  Cleanses do nothing but make you pee alot. Your liver and kidneys do a good enough job screening out impurities in your body. When you drink a cleans you are basically starving yourself. You're losing water weight not fat.  When you starve yourself you will lose weight but not body fat. If you're not feeding your body food, your body will hold onto it's fat stores for energy.  In the mean time your muscle mass is slowing melting away because you're not feeding the muscle what it needs. 

SKINNY FAT
"Skinny fat" is what I refer to people, mostly women, who look thin and beautiful on the outside.  They can wear anything they want and it seems they just have great genetics.  But if you squeeze an arm on one of those girls it will feel soft and squishy.  
I had a close friend who was 5'2", 98 lbs, very petit and looked like a Barbie Doll.  One of the most beautiful women I've ever seen.  She was a size zero.  She asked me one day to test her bodyfat percentage and it was 32%.  For women, anything over 32% is considered clinically obese.  From the outside she looks like she might be 13%. This goes to show you that the size of a person doesn't necessarily correspond to the bodyfat percentagte. Needless to say she started resistance training the next day.



The difference between losing weight and body fat is the key to losing unwanted pounds.  The first problem is that we should never refer to losing weight as "losing weight!"  We should be saying "bodyfat lose" or "losing bodyfat."  Saying the word "weight" is deceiving.  

You can change your physical body weight many times throught the day just as you can also gain it during the day.  You can eat a huge lunch and gain physical weight, a pound or two.  A few hours later you can use the toilet and poop out those same two pounds. Losing weight does not mean you're losing fat.  It just means you are losing muscle mass and not fat.

Losing bodyfat is what you want to do.  Sure you can weigh yourself if you want but if you are doing resistance training (weights) in your workouts then you will build muscle.  Muscle weighs more than fat.  You can lose inches and bodyfat but may not change your physcial weight.  The bodyfat coming off is negated by the muscle added to your body.  A professional football player may weigh 220 pounds but he has 10% bodyfat.  Building muscle burns fat.

So now that you're on that track to slim down, stop losing weight and start losing bodyfat instead.  Don't even weigh yourself. When someone asks you how much weight you've lost, you say, " I've lost 5% bodyfat." It will make your feel great and sound like you know what the hell you're doing!!

YOUR SCALE IS LYING: the truth about BMI.  Below the picture is a link to a great article on the BMI and your scale.




RECOGNIZING FAD DIETS
The except below is from an article in the "GIG HARBOR LIFE" publication.

Yes, losing weight can be a daunting task - which explains the appeal of programs that promise to make weight loss easy. But all too often, fad diets result not only in regaining lost pounds, but in putting on extra weight as well. That's because safe, effective and, most importantly, long-term weight loss requires two important things:
  • permanent changes in the way you eat
  • making exercise a habit, not just something you do on the rare occasion that the mood strikes
And these are two things that many quick fixes fail to incorporate.
Here are some tips for recognizing a fad diet or weight loss gimmick:
  • It promises unrealistic results. Safe weight loss means no more than 2 pounds per week. If you lose weight any faster than that, your body could compensate by slowing down the rate at which it burns calories, thereby slowing weight loss and even making it easier to gain weight after you return to your normal eating habits.
  • It requires you to purchase special products, supplements, or foods. The foods you need to lose weight sensibly - a balance of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean meats, and lower-fat dairy products - are all available at the grocery store.
  • It eliminates certain foods or even whole food groups entirely. By cutting out certain foods from your diet, you risk coming up short on all the vitamins and nutrients you need.
  • It requires you to strictly follow a set plan. The less a diet plan takes into account your own personal likes and dislikes as well as your lifestyle, the less likely you are to stick to it. Any diet plan you follow should also account for your individual nutritional requirements, which can vary depending on age, activity level, and any medical conditions.
Here are some qualities of reliable diet plans:
  • They incorporate exercise. Burning energy through exercise means you can achieve weight loss without having to cut the number of calories you consume as drastically. As well, studies have shown regular exercise is one of the biggest predictors of keeping the weight off.
  • They make recommendations based on sound science. A safe weight-loss program makes its claims based on large-scale studies that have been reviewed by reputable health care professionals.
  • They meet the USDA's daily recommended intakes. It's important to make sure you are getting all the protein, vitamins, and minerals you need. Because it can be difficult to meet your targets while restricting calories, your doctor or dietitian may recommend supplements.
  • They include plans for maintenance. Your program should help you form the habits you need to make your weight-loss long term. Remember, healthy eating is a way of life - not just a two-week plan.


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Saturday, December 28, 2013

Resolve to Dissolve your Resoluions

You've been stuffing your face since Halloween.  Don't Deny it.  Now it's almost 2014 and you have decided to make a New Year's resolution...again...to lose weight....again.


Well there is a reason why people quit trying after a short period of time. 
Four out of five people who make New Year’s resolutions tonight will eventually break them. In fact, a third won’t even make it to the end of January.

Nearly 40 percent of those surveyed attribute breaking their resolutions to having too many other things to do, while 33 percent say they simply aren’t committed to the resolutions they set. But experts say the real problem is that people make the wrong resolutions. The typical resolution often reflects a general desire, rather than a specific goal. Read more on this at  http://well.blogs.nytimes.com





Here is a list of 5 mistakes people make when they try to lose weight from the website: 

Changing your diet and losing weight isn’t rocket science, but it’s not always as simple as people think. Here are the top mistakes that I see with my clients, and some simple fixes to get things back on track.

1. They pledge to eat "healthy." 

While this sounds great, it’s not enough. "Healthy" is vague, and it's different for everyone. Eating organic, for instance, seems healthy, but organic brownies and burritos can be easy ways to overeat and derail your progress.

Instead, have a plan! Some rules can seem arbitrary and strict, but without guidelines, it’s hard to succeed or make progress. Choose a plan that makes sense to you, and follow it.

2. They vow to eat less. 

"Eating less" is as arbitrary as "eating healthy," but even that’s not the problem. Our bodies are clever, and they’ll do what it takes to maintain weight. After all, body fat is survival fuel, and our bodies think we need it. When we go hungry, our bodies will subconsciously encourage us to eat more and move less, and we won’t even realize it.

Instead of guessing, use a food log! Writing down what you eat makes you aware of your choices, and much more likely to make good ones. It also gives you a record of what you’ve been eating, so you can make change course if you stop making progress.

3. They trust food labels. 

Terms like healthylow-fatwhole grainall-naturalPaleovegan, and organic are just some of the words that marketers put on their manufactured food products. They want to convince you that these foods will lead to weight loss, but it’s not true. Eat too much healthy food, and you’ll still gain weight.

Instead, eat 90% label free. Meat, eggs, poultry, fish, vegetables, and fruits are harder to over eat than most packaged foods, and don’t need ingredient labels and slogans. Label free foods should be the focus of every healthy diet.

4. They rely on cardio. 

We don’t know who first said “you can’t outrun a bad diet,” but it’s true! When you run, you get good at running, and your body adapts to it. Pretty soon, you're efficient enough to burn fewer calories. Eventually, your body will want you to eat more to support your exercise. Eventually, you’ll be hungry enough to eat just a little more without knowing it, and BAM, you’ve stopped losing weight!

Instead of chronic cardio, choose resistance training, which encourages your body to burn fat and support building muscle and bone. Weights, kettlebells, and bodyweight exercises are great for building the muscle and bone that we all know to be important.

Resistance training also burns calories now and later because of EPOC (excess post-exercise oxygen consumption) – the fancy term for the calories burned recovering from a workout. EPOC can burn extra calories hours or days after you’ve showered, dressed, and left the gym. Cardio can’t do that!

5. They take cheat days. 

On paper, a cheat day sounds reasonable. You’ve eaten under your calorie target all week, so you deserve the break, right? Unfortunately, studies show that most people misjudge their calorie intake by quite a bit.

Knowing that you have to burn an extra 3,500 calories to lose one pound of fat, most dieters shoot for a calorie deficit of up to 700 calories per day, which should lead to a pound or so of weight loss per week. Did you know that the typical dieter underestimates his daily intake by an average of 429 calories?

A cheat day can easily add 1,000 calories to your day, and completely wipe out your week’s progress. After months of not losing weight, most people will give up instead of playing this hunger game.

Instead of a cheat day, have a free meal. A reasonably sized "normal" meal or dessert. Enjoy it, then get right back on plan.